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Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 7:27 pm
by Clitheroekid
Prompted by the wolf thread I've often wondered why there is an `L' in `LGBTQ'.

As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 7:30 pm
by 88V8
Clitheroekid wrote:As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?
I've always regarded lesbians as a pretty dour lot.

V8

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 7:41 pm
by swill453
Clitheroekid wrote:Prompted by the wolf thread I've often wondered why there is an `L' in `LGBTQ'.

As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?
Technically maybe, but if those who choose to label themselves that way prefer it, why make an issue of it? Does everything have to be pedantically, optimally, accurate?

Scott.

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 7:42 pm
by Lootman
Clitheroekid wrote:Prompted by the wolf thread I've often wondered why there is an `L' in `LGBTQ'.

As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?
Well for that matter the Q (queer) is redundant since it is a synonym for G (gay), although I feel sure that someone will be along to point out some subtle difference.

Then there is LGBTQIA+ just to make it more interesting, the I standing for "intersex" and the A standing for "asexual"

https://gaycenter.org/about/lgbtq/

It's a minefield out there. And that is before you get to the use of pronouns.

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 8:12 pm
by XFool
Clitheroekid wrote:Prompted by the wolf thread I've often wondered why there is an `L' in `LGBTQ'.

As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?
Just guessing. Possibly to be as inclusive as possible?

While lesbian is gay, lesbian definitely implies female (used to!), gay definitely includes males. So gay females and gay males are included with "LG".

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 8:19 pm
by servodude
XFool wrote:
Clitheroekid wrote:Prompted by the wolf thread I've often wondered why there is an `L' in `LGBTQ'.

As I understand it, the `L' stands for Lesbian, but the next letter is `G', which stands for `Gay', and as the term gay obviously encompasses lesbians is the `L' not therefore superfluous?
Just guessing. Possibly to be as inclusive as possible?

While lesbian is gay, lesbian definitely implies female (used to!), gay definitely includes males. So gay females and gay males are included with "LG".
I think that's pretty much my understanding.

Historically lesbians were treated quite differently from gay men and the acronym coined for organisations to identity that they were not excluding them and demonstrate solidarity.

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 8:46 pm
by Urbandreamer
XFool wrote:While lesbian is gay, lesbian definitely implies female (used to!), ....
Just to correct a point, lesbian use to define someone from Lesbos. You know the Greek island.

I've always been confused why that sexual preference is named after that Geek state, but males are not named after Thebes. Given the Sacred band of Thebes.

But then "It's all Greek to me".

Ps, points for finding the original use (quote).

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 12th, 2023, 10:04 pm
by UncleEbenezer
Urbandreamer wrote: I've always been confused why that sexual preference is named after that Geek state,
Geeks aren't getting it any other way?

(sorry, couldn't resist).

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 15th, 2023, 6:13 pm
by moorfield
So what about girls who want boys who like boys to be girls who do boys like they're girls who do girls like they're boys ?

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 16th, 2023, 10:26 am
by dionaeamuscipula
moorfield wrote:So what about girls who want boys who like boys to be girls who do boys like they're girls who do girls like they're boys ?
I'd have to say that was an example of Blurred lines

DM (sorry)

Re: Why the L?

Posted: January 16th, 2023, 3:51 pm
by didds
Urbandreamer wrote:
Just to correct a point, lesbian use to define someone from Lesbos. You know the Greek island.
whereas ISTR Trivial Pursuit back in the 80s described such people as Lesbosians.
A google suggests "lesbian" does appear to be as correct as any other. Though then again possibly such people are actually called after the capital of Lesbos, Mitilini, are thus and named Mitilineous

hey ho.